Favorite Local Businesses!

Help me support some of my favorite local businesses during the pandemic. Gift certificates to these establishments make wonderful gifts for myself and for any other Portlanders you know. Several of my favorites have succumbed already. Please help keep the ones that remain afloat.

The Dragontree – My favorite Portland spa! Gift certificates for massages or facials are ALWAYS appreciated.

Loyly – But you can never have too many favorite spas. This one is also lovely.

Portland Juice Company – Healthy juices that I love!

Sock Dreams – A fetish I didn’t fully understand until I moved to the PNW. Soft, warm, thigh high socks.

Books with Pictures – one of my very favorite comic book stores anywhere.

TOV Coffee – I’m not a huge coffee drinker, but when I do, this is where I go. The Minty Things helped me weather the pandemic.

Tender Loving Empire – A fun shopping place with trinkets and goodies made here in Portland.

Powells City of Books – The heart of Portland.

Zahara Boutique – One of my favorite boutiques.

Cibo – A favorite Italian spot.

Canard An delicious little french spot that I adore.

Kinky Portland!

Sub Rosa – My kinky education and play space! This is where I do sessions and host weekly classes. My space is also available for rentals to the local kink community as well as traveling kinksters as long as you have some references!

Fifty Shades of STFU and QUINK! – Monthly kinky play parties hosted by my business partner, Mistress Viola Parker.

SheBop – Portland Based feminist sex shop with body safe products, some fun locally made toys, and educational classes.

KinkFest – The West Coast’s premiere BDSM and kink conference, offering educational workshops, play parties, leather and fetish vendors, and community meeting spaces.

PDX Munch Calendar – We have one almost every day of the week! Hosted by the Portland Leather Alliance.

Taboo – All your basic sex toys (although not always of the highest quality), as well as video booths and glory holes.

Spartacus – Lots of sex toys, as well as a healthy dose of kink supplies.

Local Kinky PhotographersDocument your hotness!

Portland Creates – I love Peter’s noir look! Most of the newer photos on this site were taken by him. #TeamHuffleBuff

Amber Red Photo – Old skool PNW punk and pin-up photographer.

Marina Green Photography – Amazing kinky photographer with a lovely studio in downtown Vancouver.

Favorite Fetish Clothing Sites“Life is short, wear your party pants! ” – Loretta LaRoche

Leathererotics – My favorite place to get quality, affordable leather. Great customer service.

Lux Leather – Bespoke lambskin. I would wear nothing but clothing from Lux if I could afford it.

Fernando Berlin Boots – Made to order leather boots.

Northbound Leather – Beautiful leather. Horrible customer service.

Dark Gardens – Dreamy custom corsets seen everywhere from celebrity weddings to fetish parties

Timeless Trends Corsets

Orchard Corsets

What Katie Did – Vintage Inspired Lingerie that is simply the best.

Bare Necessities – Their free and easy returns as well as their wide range of sizes makes this my favorite place to get lingerie.

Curvy Kate – Stunning and sultry lingerie for larger cup sizes. One of the only places I can always find my 34G. And please, for the love of boobs, go to a real bra store to get measured. Do NOT take what Vicky’s tells you as gospel. They are in the business of selling you bras. Not making sure you are comfortable. You deserve to be comfortable.

The Lingerie Addict – My absolute favorite place for finding new lingerie. Great reviews and educational bits. Like, how often you really need to wash your bra.


Fetters – I would like one of each please! I have a serious lust for their bondage stuffs.

Mr. S Leather  – Lovely leather and fetish items. Gift certificates from Mr. S are ALWAYS appreciated.

Agreeable Agony – Beautiful rope and leather impact toys made by some of my favorite peoples.

Spandex Wear – Beautiful spandex zentai suits and mummy bags.

Church of Sinvention – Deliciously devious toys…

Keyed Alike – If you use a lot of locks, make sure they are keyed alike for safety!

Pavlok – Habit tracker, but allows anyone with a link to send a little jolt.

Tenuto – Wearable vibe for men. Can be controlled remotely through an app.

Remote Control Estim – For when you need to hurt someone who isn’t in the room with you.

Remote Control Stroker – Bluetooth controlled fleshlight.

Lovense – Remote controlled vibrators and plugs for teasing and tormenting those you can’t be in the same room with.

Straitjacket Shop – Custom canvas restraints, body bags, and straitjackets. Lots of lovely ABDL and medical toys as well.

Adult Baby and Diaper Lover Resources


There are MANY different kinds of diapers to put on your submissive (or yourself). The differences range in any category you can think of, fit, style, absorbency, thickness, crinkle, material, print and a few others. Ultimately it will be through trial and error that a Dominant or the diapered individual will discover their favorite, and discover which diapers work best for certain situations or scene’s. Below is a list of different companies who supply the community with diapers to fit adults interested in the ABDL lifestyle. There are more adult diapers than what you will find on this list, but it’s a good start.


Really great diapers with lots of prints for just about every situation. All their diapers have what they call a “waddle cut” design which is supposed to be another guard against leaks and fit in such a way that will force the wearer to waddle making the fact that he or she is wearing diapers just a little more obvious. They have a tougher plastic which makes their crinkles a bit louder than most other ABDL diapers. 


Rearz offers lots of options for diapers as well, both disposable and washable cloth diapers. They have many different prints and levels of absorbencies, including the supplies necessary for making cloth diapers work, such as plastic pants and diaper pins.  


Bambino diapers were (as far as I know) the first ABDL diaper to come on the market with a print. Now, they offer diapers in all over print, white diapers with printed tape landing zone, all white diapers, and pull up style briefs. They have moderate absorbency and aren’t all that thick. 


AB Universe makes great diapers. They have an incredibly wide variety for whatever one may be looking for. At ABU you can find diapers with plastic back or cloth back, 2 tapes or 4 tapes, all over prints and all white diapers, and hook and loop style tapes

Little for Big

Little for Big offers 7 different kind of diapers. There is one plain white style and 6 prints. These diapers are thick and crinkly and have prints that could be considered specifically feminine and there are prints that could be considered for boys, but also a couple that could go either way. All their diapers are plastic backed and are perfect for making diapers OBVIOUS. 

Changing Times

Changing Times Diaper Company only makes one kind of diaper. They are so good and so cute thought that they need mentioning. Their diaper is called Bear Hugs and they are plastic backed and have hook and loop tapes. The Bear Hugs have a medium absorbency but hold up a lot longer with booster pads. Changing Times has an actual store front in Las Vegas and they sell almost all the diapers previously mentioned on this list both in person at their store and from their website. 


A really wonderful company, Northshore while being a medical incontinence brand regularly attends the ABDL convention CapCon. Their diapers are fantastic. They offer six different kinds of diapers with the Megamax line being the most popular, thickest and highest level of absorbency. 

The ABDL Shop

ABDL owned diaper company. They make two kinds. The first, the Carousel is a diaper with print in the tape area and blue and pink around the legs. The other is called the Trest and it is ridiculously thick and ridiculously absorbent. Either one is perfect for those times when you want your submissive to have multiple accidents in the same diaper and end up with a crazy waddle and unable to get their thighs together. 

DependECO Adult Diapers

These are cloth diapers only. There is a bit of a system for using them, involving inserts to make a diaper thicker and more absorbent depending on the needs of the wearer or desires of the Dominant. The company is owned by one person and the diapers are handmade, very effective and really cute. There are many many different options when ordering and it would be best to have a discussion with the owner if you don’t know exactly what you need. 

ABDL Clothing

Clothing and outfits can serve many functions in a diaper Dominance relationship. If the Dominant is trying to create an ageplay scene then putting the submissive into a cute little snap crotch onesie can help them achieve the “little” headspace. Maybe the situation calls for more humiliation and not only does the submissive need to be put in a diaper, but also stripped of their adult clothing privileges and put into a sailor suit or a toddler style birthday dress. Then, depending on how the submissive chooses to identify, changing an outfit can bring sissification or feminization into the scene. Like diapers, there are many companies across the internet who make clothes specifically for “Adult Babies,” but there is nothing stopping you from getting creative and frugal by finding things at Target or Walmart. A lot of the following providers will also have fun things aside from clothing that can help set a scene, like pacifier clips, diaper bags, changing mats, etc. And of course tradition kink items apply and most leather or PVC providers will be able to provide anyone interested with white, or pink, or baby blue options. 

Big Tot

A really great Etsy site that has everything from nursery print, little bunny ears beanies to diaper covers and pajama sets. There are many many Etsy sites with great stuff, but this is a favorite.

Straightjacket Shop

Not “clothing” per se, but really fun things nonetheless. There are of course straightjackets, but they make amazing quality things for diaper Dominance, like locking diaper covers, mittens, and booties with spikes to keep the diapered subject crawling.  


Really well made, super cute stuff. Heavy on the AB side. They are based in Germany. 

Baby Your Doll

New company, ABDL owned with very cute toddler-ish designs. Again, more on the baby side than diaper Dominance, but creative Domme’s and sub’s can make anything embarrassing. 

Little Kink Boutique

A store with a huge selection and a physical location if you’re in PA and want to have an outing with your diapered charge. 


Another provider with a physical location. ABDLR stocks everything you would need for an afternoon or even a whole week spent with a waddling adult. 

Sub Space Leathers

Another Etsy shop, but of course worth mentioning. They have been able to put an ABDL or diaper Dominance spin on traditional BDSM restraints that will help you keep your obedient diapered charge exactly where you want them. 

Binkies and Bows

A long time favorite for custom frilly ABDL dresses, bonnet and diaper covers. I own several.

Adult Baby Shop

Lovely ABDL clothing and kinky toys including some leather and rubber.

Cosy N Dry

Supplies and clothing for both little girls as well as little boys. Custom as well as ready to wear.

The Big Little Podcast

Cross dressing and Sissification

The Sissy Store

Leanne’s Pretty Dresses

Super Dresses

Chastity Devices

DreamLover Labs – High Tech Remote Chastity

Holy Trainer – Bioresin Chastity Devices

Mature Metal – Metal Cages

CB-X – The CB-3000, CB-6000 and The Curve Chastity Devices

Steel Worxx – Lovely Cages

Mini Safe – Time Locking Container

Keybox 3 – Remotely Controlled Lockbox

USB Timed Padlock

Cellmate – Chastity cage controlled via an app. Fun device if you can get it to work, but the software has already been hacked once. Be aware.

Lori’s Chastity Devices – High end custom chastity devices designed for all body types and possibilities.

Sex Bloggers I Adore – “If I’d observed all the rules, I’d never have gotten anywhere.” – Marilyn Monroe

GirlBoner – One of my favorite people on the web! Where good girls go for sexual empowerment, August McLaughlin writes about body image and women’s sexuality. Her podcast is not to be missed!

Ruby Ryder’s Pegging Paradise – The best place on the web for men, women, and couples to learn about pegging.

Walker Thornton – Writer and speaker Walker Thornton is here to answer your questions and dispel myths about women, sex, and aging.

Joan Price – Speaker, educator, and advocate for ageless sexuality.

Sex Out Loud Radio – Tristan Taormino interviews leading authors, educators, artists and icons to give you an uncensored, inside look at alternative sexual practices and communities.

Sex, Kink and BDSM Education Whip it. Whip it good. – Devo

Kink Craft For those who are DIY, or want to create a personal touch to your kinky toolbox, I present Kink Crafts.

Jessica Drake’s Guide To Wicked Sex: Plus Size Hot educational film for enjoying sex as, or with your plus size partner.

Jessica Drake’s Guide To Wicked Sex: Senior Sex Senior sex author and educator Joan Price teams up with jessica drake to bring you practical tips for increasing your sexual pleasure through the decades ahead, plus explicit demonstrations by a cast of sexy seniors. 

Kink Academy Tons of educational videos on pretty much every fetish and kink.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
The New Bottoming Book
The New Topping Book
The Mistress Manual
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction
The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners
Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé
The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Strap-On Sex
The Big Book for Littles: Tips & Tricks for Age Players & Their Partners
Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
Embraceable: Empowering Facts and True Stories About Women’s Sexuality

Kinky Sexy Books

The Sleeping Beauty Chronicles This is the BDSM erotica I first read as a very young Domina so it’s always going to be a favorite. It’s a delightfully twisted BDSM fantasy.

Anything By Rachel Kramer Brussel Whenever people are new to kink or erotica, I refer them to her books. They are themed compilations with numerous contributors. Something is sure to spark your interest and start you down an erotic rabbit hole.

sissy sandra in training: The (mis)adventures of sissy sandra in training, the real, true to life sissy in training to the premiere sissification & humiliation

Steaming Streaming Porn A lot of people are afraid to say what they want. That’s why they don’t get what they want. – Madonna

For The Girls Beautifully shot softcore stills and video aimed at tantalizing a more mainstream palate. Great shots of hot men masturbating too!

Crash Pad Series The continuing story of a secret apartment in San Francisco dedicated to hot, queer sex.

Queer Porn TV A wide variety of gender queer, kinky, dirty sex made by people who love to make porn.

Trouble Films The porn studio of Courtney Trouble offering sex positive queer porn with diverse casts.

Feminist Porn Awards When all else fails, or when looking for something new, spend some time cruising the nominees. I’m certain you will find something, or someone, engaging.

Sex Toy Reviews If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun. – Katharine Hepburn

Hey Epiphora Wit and biting sarcasm and spot-on sex toy reviews. What’s not to love. “This is where sex toys go to be judged.”

Oh Joy Sex Toy Highly entertaining as well as educational sex toys reviews in graphic novel style.

Support Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got. – Janis Joplin

RAINN Rape Abuse Incest National Network
Human Right Campaign – Coming Out Resources
Lorena’s Red Wagon – Domestic Abuse Awareness
Violence Unsilenced
Planned Parenthood
SRG The Sex, Gender, and Relationships Hotline based in San Francisco

Sex Ed for Kids To have that sense of one’s intrinsic worth…is potentially to have everything. -Joan Didion

It’s Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health (book)
Sex is a Funny Word: A Book about Bodies, Feelings, and YOU
What Makes A Baby
Why This Sudden Trend In Trans Kids Informative post by a trans-woman about her gender journey.

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