With quarantine coming to an end, people are anxious to submit in person. I’ve talked to several people over the last couple of months who had never gotten the nerve to submit to a professional dominatrix and who were anxious to finally live that dream once quarantine lifted. But how to go about it?
- Look to connect with someone who has the same interests. Booking with someone you think is pretty, and trying to explain your fetish to her is never going to give you the results that booking with someone who shares your fetish.
- Be honest. Don’t tell us what you think we want to hear. Tell us the truth. We strive to create a safe place for you to confess your fantasies so you can explore them. Now is not the time to downplay that foot fetish! Confess and let us enjoy you!
- Be Polite. Don’t grovel telling us how submissive you are in an introductory email. You are emailing us. We assume you are submissive. This is when you connect with us as equals. The groveling at our feet will come later.
- Pay for the experience. Sure. You can hook up with someone you meet in some chatroom, but are they going to understand the subtle intricacies of your fetish? Or how to play safely? Find someone who has a professional presence and research her reputation. Professional Domination is a business. We love what we do, but we invest in our skills, or toys and our space. This is our passion. Pay for it.
Of course every Mistress will have a slightly different booking protocol, and prefer things to be done a certain way. Read up on the Domina you intend on serving and do things her way.
Learn from The FemDom Society
The FemDom Society is a group of FemDoms and ThemDoms who write. Every couple months the FemDom Society’s will have group theme and this time it’s about learning to serve a Pro Domme. Please visit these site, and learn how you can learn to serve your dream Mistress.
Lady Valeska (London, England) How to book a session with London Dominatrix Lady Valeska Lady Valeska eases anxiety and explains how to properly book a session with Her to make the experience as enjoyable as possible.
Miss Mae Ling (Las Vegas and West Coast) Real Time Sessions Resume May 10th, 2021 Miss Mae Ling is opening up real time sessions to the general public starting May 10th. Read up on her west coast tour and covid procedures.
Mistress Holly GoLightly How to Contact a Pro Domme Clothespin got your tongue? Mistress Holly discusses how to appropriately contact a dominatrix without having an impromptu humiliation scene.
Mistress Jadis Ives (Sydney Australia) Ten Tips for your first session Contemplating your first FemDom session? Sydney Dominatrix Mistress Jadis Ives shares some vital tips for making your kinky first time a success.
Mistress Viola Parker (Portland, Oregon) So you wanna play with a pro? You’re tired of being house-bound and looking to get leather-bound. Mistress Viola’s advice on how to best approach pro-dommes after this intense pandemic year.
Princessa Natasha Strange (Portland, Oregon) Top 10 Misconceptions about Professional Dominatrix In a salute to the David Letterman Top 10 list, here are the top 10 misconceptions about professional dominatrix.
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